Last week, I
got an unexpected call from my dance teacher saying that he needed to me to
teach for one of my teachers since she is pregnant and is going on bed rest
soon. I called him on Saturday saying
that I don’t think I will be able to teach, because, I need to focus a lot on
school since finals and exams are around the corner and that I will be really
stressed going up to Alexandria 4 days a week. He said that he understands, and
that he is going to try to find someone else. He felt bad because all of the
pressure was on me and because this was a last minute thing.
I think I made
the right decision by saying no, even though I feel really bad because I know I
let my dance teachers down. But at the end of the day, focusing on my education
is more important.
Yesterday, I
got another unexpected call and it was my dance teacher again. He called to
apologize about asking me to teach at the last minute me and that he found
someone else to teach, so I don’t have to worry. But he also called to tell me
that he is going to need a teacher in the summer for summer classes, I told him
that I am willing to do it because its only twice a week, for only a month.
Since my
teacher offered me to teach summer classes, I think I am going to take his
offer and do it. He told me that I would get paid, and that would be good for
me because I could really use some money over the summer.
The only
thing I am not looking forward to in teaching summer classes is that I have to
go all the way to Alexandria, and there probably will be a lot of traffic going
up there and going back home. But in the
end I am willing to do anything for my dance studio since they have done a lot for
me.
So this was a semi-win? Your stuck to your guns in the short term, but this summer will be difficult, too, if you have to travel in traffic. Are you taking summer courses? How will saying "no, but yes" really affect your organization and new life patterns?
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I am proud of you for saying no....for now. It's been something I have found difficult for the first time in my life when I started out as a nurse. I never wanted to the patients to suffer due to understaffing so I sacrificed my personal life, my education, and other things to be there. In the end, I'm not quite sure it was worth it. Just like in your situation, there are others that could've stepped up and covered the shifts needed. I'm glad that you could see the negative impact it could've had and made the right choice. Congratulations.
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